• wombat [none/use name]@hexbear.netOP
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    I’m an Iranian immigrant. You really just need to remind her of the benevolence of the west. Austria, France, and the USA showed my family clemency and grace. Austria and France let them in as refugees, the US gave them citizenship. They’re successful business owners. I’m in law school and work for the CA legislature. This kind of success story does not exist outside of the west. Seriously, immigrants have no better choice than a western country, and that’s where my loyalty lies because of the huge chance and opportunity the west gave my family.

    agony-shivering

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      This kind of success story does not exist outside of the west

      This. This is the completely unquestioned propaganda nugget that holds the whole belief system together. Who told you that? Why would you believe that?

      Enormous, and economically successful countries like China, just have no immigrants, no refugees, and no social mobility? (not that the US has a ton, there’s a lot of unacknowledged luck involved in this story too)

      This story can absolutely happen in other countries. China even has a higher income mobility than the US. And if you look at the statistics, immigrants are actually disproportionately likely to be pulled down into the cycle of poverty that exists in the US, there’s an alternate universe not so different from our own where this dipshit’s parents had the resources to leave Iran, eventually landed in the US, and actually experienced downward mobility not upward, and rather than becoming exploiters themselves, hit a speed bump along the way like a serious injury or foreclosure or god knows what else and instead became destitute low-wage workers, who can’t afford to live in (most of anyhow) CA, send their kid to law school to do unpaid internships, etc.

      This person really has not considered that they aren’t the protagonist of real life and most people’s stories don’t look like theirs

    • HumanBehaviorByBjork [any, undecided]@hexbear.net
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      “wow the west didn’t execute my family at the customs booth just because we come from a race of backwards communist islamist psychopaths. truly liberal democracy is the way, the truth, and the light.”

    • EllenKelly [comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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      Your friend needs a life. Join a gym with her, start a running club, get her a Switch, get her obsessed with something besides social media.

      68 upvotes

      😱

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    I find it fascinating how every single time it is the exact same arguments, same wording, same tactics.

    The only acceptable topic is the genocide perpetrated by the Oppressor on the Oppressed If you bring up any other topic, ask any question, anything at all, you don’t think Palestinians are people It is like you, and her, are reading from the exact same ideological manual. it is scary.

    Liberals really struggle with moral consistency.

    It “sounds like we’re reading from the same manual” because it’s the natural reaction to a fucking genocide.

    It’s the same arguments and wording because it’s 100% correct and it’s all that should be needed.

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      When their arguments all sound the same, it’s because they’re brainwashed.

      When our arguments all sound the same, it’s a sign that we’re the adults in the room.

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      During one of the news cycles, I accidentally clicked to view a pic and it was of a lady slumped over in her car with a gunshot wound in her head and was like “nope, I’m good. Absolutely fuck all of this and everyone who supports it.”

      I can’t fucking imagine that but 20000 times.

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    I’m an Iranian immigrant. You really just need to remind her of the benevolence of the west.

    lmaooooooooooo

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    Same. A lot of my Muslim friends are completely off the rails now. The post Oct 7 reaction is shocking honestly.

    Of course, those who strongly oppose genocide and reject the system responsible are off the rails.

    But the smug, suburbanite neoliberals endlessly denying, normalizing, or defending the genocide on reddit are practically glued to the rails. saul-your-honor

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    I have a very educated Palestinian colleague who on October 9th was talking to me about Apartheid states and European (sole!) responsibility for Hamas’ acts of ‘defence’.

    Some of these things are as built into people as allegiance to a football team.

    He’s very educated, and a Palestinian. Hmmm… Time to discard his opinion!

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    The bill is coming due for the global colonizer complex, and they can’t even handle the idea. Further, I want every single cracker in that thread really fixing their faces to shittalk Fanon put on pikes and paraded through downtown Atlanta

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    And the thing is, Bernie endorsed POTUS a long time ago, but you’d be forgiven for forgetting that given how rabid some of his followers still are.

    lmao

    When you define the world into oppressor and oppressed and justify anything the oppressed do against the oppressor you’re going to manufacture this type of insanity. This philosophy has become extremely common in US higher education, unsurprised to see it growing elsewhere too.

    This doesn’t really explain it though. Jews have been the group that has most consistently been oppressed throughout world history.

    Hmmm perhaps there’s something going on here that you’re failing to grasp

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    Neoliberals are creepy to me. It’s unfathomable to me that you could have this reaction to a genocide and to other people caring about it.

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    Tbh, and this may be an unpopular opinion, but just remain their friend and don’t get involved discussing these issues and show them love. Just say you disagree if they bring up politics.
    I have a friend who is a Twelver Shia who idolises Soleimieni. We just don’t discuss these things and remain good friends. If you want to change their mind, it is more likely their mindset will shift if they are close to someone who thinks different.

    Would you say the same thing about a neo Nazi?

    The answer has to be yes. [some shit about the bible]

    This is the problem with liberals lol. They’ll know someone they disagree with on such a fundamental level, but they’re too much of a birch to confront them

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      To let things slide for the sake of peace and friendship when a person has clearly gone wrong, and refrain from principled argument because he is an old acquaintance, a fellow townsman, a schoolmate, a close friend, a loved one, an old colleague or old subordinate. Or to touch on the matter lightly instead of going into it thoroughly, so as to keep on good terms. The result is that both the organization and the individual are harmed. This is one type of liberalism.

      mao-wave

      It does take skill, effort, and patience to talk about major points of disagreement (and actually go in depth on them) without blowing up a friendship. But that’s valuable stuff to develop anyway, and if you can’t talk to a friend about topics like this, how are you supposed to have the same conversation with strangers?

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        When a liberal says something like “just remain their friend and don’t get involved discussing these issues and show them love. Just say you disagree if they bring up politics”, I wonder how much of that response comes from them knowing very little about what they actually believe. Like, could they really explain how they arrived at their opinion or why they believe the things they do in conversation?

        Or is it just like taking medication - “I don’t know how it works but this is what I was prescribed”?

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    But she is getting obsessed with her “Algerian identity”, talking about how “look what the French did to my people”, when she is of French nationality.

    Ah yes, because citizenship should blind one to what their country did to their people, and in living memory no less. Also the slaughter of peaceful French Algerian protesters by a chief of police who served in Vichy France.

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        Same boat, and I’m never forgiving the nation of devils for scattering my family to the cosmic winds over at least a hundred fifty years if not longer, stripping me of any history or culture one could take pride in, and leaving me with a nebulous void to either be filled with “Amerikan”, or nothing. I’d rather be Nothing.

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    Your friend needs a life. Join a gym with her, start a running club, get her a Switch, get her obsessed with something besides social media.

    Have you thought about play vibeo gameos so ur friend don’t think abt her current country’s destruction and immiseration of her natal country and possibly her growing self awareness that but for a few lucky breaks she would probably be on the business end of the extractive apparatus she currently benefits from?

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        Yeah, absolutely the pinnacle of r/neoliberalism to give advice about a friend who’s obviously feeling a lot of stress about current events that amounts to “have you tried looking for ways to get her to stop talking about it?”