• mrmanager@lemmy.today
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    3 months ago

    One thing women does that men don’t… Is that they remember every single time you did something dumb, and they will use that as ammunition in every fight.

    • jubilationtcornpone@sh.itjust.works
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      3 months ago

      First, this is not exclusive to women. Men can and do do this. Second, if that’s your experience then you need to hang around with better women. My wife does not do this, even in the very rare instances that we’ve ever had a fight about something. Probably because she’s a normal, mature adult who recognizes that people, including me, make mistakes now and then.

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        3 months ago

        Of course. Not all women will do this. Your wife doesn’t do it, that’s great. But we all have different experiences in life. Everyone gets treated differently. So all these discussions are is about our subjective experiences.

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          3 months ago

          That’s why we shouldn’t generalize so incautiously and shove all people of group X into one drawer.

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      3 months ago

      That can be. That doesn’t kill you, though.