I don’t want to detract from the main line of discussion here, but I find this to be a weird hangup. It’s been a normal thing since at least Facebook’s founding for social media sites to list the user’s gender. I kind of wish there was a more elegant solution in broadly-understood culture, but I think listing how the user would like to be referred to if you discuss them in the third person is, if anything, far less invasive with labeling than the common alternatives (including not including such information, which produces endless little worthless discursive circles of “actually I’m not a he” from assuming everyone on the internet is a man).
This begins with acknowledging that some people don’t fit into a neat binary category, if they even identify with the spectrum at all
The point isn’t to form cliques, the point is acceptance. If one claims to support trans rights, but then misgenders that person and refuses to acknowledge how they would like to be referred, then one is not supportive of trans rights
I don’t want to detract from the main line of discussion here, but I find this to be a weird hangup. It’s been a normal thing since at least Facebook’s founding for social media sites to list the user’s gender. I kind of wish there was a more elegant solution in broadly-understood culture, but I think listing how the user would like to be referred to if you discuss them in the third person is, if anything, far less invasive with labeling than the common alternatives (including not including such information, which produces endless little worthless discursive circles of “actually I’m not a he” from assuming everyone on the internet is a man).
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To people who have spent their entire life being misgendered, it is
A single moment of positivity can outshine half a dozen moments of negativity
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This begins with acknowledging that some people don’t fit into a neat binary category, if they even identify with the spectrum at all
The point isn’t to form cliques, the point is acceptance. If one claims to support trans rights, but then misgenders that person and refuses to acknowledge how they would like to be referred, then one is not supportive of trans rights
Be better
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You don’t get to decide that