I’m wondering what the consensus on exhibitionism is, fictionally and non-fictionally.

And, does publicly posting about kinks, like here, count as exhibitionism?

  • Jessvulf @yiffit.net
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    1 year ago

    IRL exhibitionism should be done in low risk or safe places like nude beaches, private land, swingers clubs. It’s not ok to force your sexual acts on others who are unaware. Exhibitionism is one of my favorite kinks but you need to be responsible when acting on it.

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    Fictionally, extremely hot although it does need to be built into the world properly so that it comes across right. I tend to find it meshes especially nicely with certain dragons if the buildup and circumstances are correct.

    Non-fictionally, while I’m not opposed to it, I actually wouldn’t want to see it, so the best way to go about a healthy balance would probably be to have designated places in the world where nudity laws and the like don’t apply? Although as a culture, we have a ways to go before we’re ready for it on a wider scale, we can’t expect progress if we’re not willing to try and move forwards.

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    Exhibitionism is one of my kinks, at least in fictional contexts. I don’t know how I’d actually feel about doing something like that in reality. I do think people are exposed to a lot more violence today than nudity and sexuality, and that public displays of either really aren’t capable of hurting people like public displays of violence are; that is to say, we as a society make way bigger a deal about it than we need to.

  • 稲荷大神の狐@yiffit.net
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    Absolutely love it! (≧◡≦) ♡

    Their is something just so thrilling about going outside naked, exposed to the world and the possibility of being caught and facing the shame and humiliation of it. Whether out in the countryside, a suburban neighborhood, or even an urban city.(≧▽≦)

    Makes me shiver just thinking about it! (⁄ ⁄>⁄ ▽ ⁄<⁄ ⁄)

    Though I could only do it in my fantasies… ( ╥ω╥ )

    Doing it outside of fantasy in the real world would get me busted with charges of obscenity and be labeled a sex offender. (º □ º l|l)/

    And Kitsune-sama does not want that! (>﹏<)

    Atleast there are plenty of stories, comics, and images of it that can allow me to enjoy such a fantasy.

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    Fictionally, for example in yiff. It is a hell yes for me. I like to imagine a reality where sexuality is something more normal and can be lived openly.

    In reality I say no, especially in actual public places, where a lot of people are. Since obviously the viewers do not consent to that.

    Recently I heard that there are events or similar that allow this. Which sounds cool.

    And a grey-zone is, doing it at hidden places. There it seams to be a risk/reward thing ;).

  • Awoos the Kinkwolf@yiffit.netM
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    I maay have a bit of a humiliation kink, so the idea of being bound and paraded in public is kinda hot to me as a fantasy, provided it’s in a hypothetical world where there is no sex taboo. Doesn’t really interest me on my own without that element though.

    I could maybe be convinced to do something like it IRL in a closed space where I know and trust all the people there (or at the very least, someone I trust a lot trusts them).

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    Love it. I enjoy showing off my body in both a sexual and non sexual way. It’s pretty sad that nudism is pretty rare and frowned upon in our recent culture.

  • It’s a double edged sword. I don’t mind it, personally. I am even into it a little. But it’s not cool to expose others to your kinks out in public. Taking your “pet” for a walk on a leash in full bondage gear out in public may be fun for you, but it’s not so fun for everyone else. Keep it to venues where that’s okay, like an orgy or sex club.