• electrogamerman@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    I do agree that marriage is a religious thing and I wouldn’t care at all, but getting married brings a lot of benefits.

    So its not like gay people want to “realize their dreams” but we want the same benefits that straight people have.

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      Marriage is not religious. Getting married in a church, with a priest and before God is the religious part.

      In a lot of countries you can get married without any religion being involved. Some government officials will then officiate the wedding.

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        Even true in the religious U.S., even in ultra-religious Indiana. My wife and I got married by a lawyer (a very old family friend) in a ballroom. We said we didn’t want any mention of god or religion and he complied. This was 23 years ago, but it hasn’t changed.

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      I only meant “realize their dreams” in the sense that some people want it as part of their life goals. I personally don’t want it and couldn’t care less but I still want that possibility for others.