What a wild level of self entitlement to post a public comment and then insist everyone else respect your unstated personal boundaries, like they should know your trauma and you’re not the one walking into an obviously sexual space.
This is a shit post. If you’re setting boundaries it would be wise to not say things that sound like a joke (“I’ll bite you”, “checkmate”) so people don’t make sexual jokes in response.
That was a manner of speech. No one actually cares about your wisdom or level thereof as you gauge it, but you’re ignoring much objectivity in your refusal to acknowledge it was perhaps you who did the minor social error.
Bro what? Sir this is a Lemmy’s, you’re not talking to your therapist. Touch some grass if an internet comment that you chose to engage with pushed against your boundaries.
Agreed, you wouldn’t be a good therapist. You don’t seem to be able to grasp that I have boundaries, and that I can communicate them online, after all.
I’m sorry you were molested but you cannot expect strangers to refrain from playing with each other to respect triggers they don’t even know exist. I know it sucks, I know it can even feel like physical pain. But they are not psychic and while we did not ask for trauma, it is our responsibility at the end of the day, not theirs. They’re just having fun and they should be able to do that.
Strangers tend to be humans. I expect humans to be machines for making the world worse.
I don’t expect humans to respect my boundaries, quite often, because a large number of humans gain profit from oppressing each other.
Kindness might feel like or look like a choice, but it truly comes from understanding. Lord Buddha came across some children fishing, and asked them how they would react to a hook piercing their cheek, for example.
The concept of ‘me’ as exclusive from other living beings is what allows for harmful distinctions to be made, where ‘me’ can exploit others for profit. In reality, ‘me’ is just one of many living beings, and we are all born, feel pain, and die.
Snark aside tho, you really, desperately need to stop doomscrolling. P much all your posts are about horribly depressing shit and that has a very real effect on how you view others. The vast majority of people aren’t rapists and abusers and fascists and shit, they just get a lot of attention bc enraging and hopeless stories get a lot of traffic. Oil and social media companies and right wing politicians invest a fuck ton of money and effort into making sure people are completely hopeless and mad at the wrong people, don’t give them that easy a win <3
I’m sorry for being edgy myself earlier, people with lives as traumatic as yours sounds from these comments come by misanthropy at least a bit honestly. That doesn’t make utter hopelessness or contempt for others helpful or good, but I should’ve been more understanding
I’m an anarchist and asexual and also autistic and I’ll bite you if you touch me. Checkmate, archists.
The funny thing about ace peeps is they think that’s a threat
You poor, innocent FOOLS
dont touch people without consent thanks
Yeah, no touching, thanks. I was molested as a child and didn’t enjoy it.
If that makes me ‘innocent’, whatever.
Probably a bad idea to engage with a post about touching prostates then
I’m sorry that you’re uncomfortable that I have boundaries. Maybe it’s a bad idea for you to engage in society, because you’re not very good at it.
What a wild level of self entitlement to post a public comment and then insist everyone else respect your unstated personal boundaries, like they should know your trauma and you’re not the one walking into an obviously sexual space.
This is a shit post. If you’re setting boundaries it would be wise to not say things that sound like a joke (“I’ll bite you”, “checkmate”) so people don’t make sexual jokes in response.
That’s not a joke. I will bite you. Don’t touch me without my consent.
If you do enjoy touching people without their consent, consider fucking right off.
I am under no obligation to be wise for your benefit. I am wise for my own benefit. Good day.
That was a manner of speech. No one actually cares about your wisdom or level thereof as you gauge it, but you’re ignoring much objectivity in your refusal to acknowledge it was perhaps you who did the minor social error.
Good thing I don’t care. I’m sure someone else with boundaries you don’t approve of will come along, in time, for you to tut at.
Good day.
Bro what? Sir this is a Lemmy’s, you’re not talking to your therapist. Touch some grass if an internet comment that you chose to engage with pushed against your boundaries.
Agreed, you wouldn’t be a good therapist. You don’t seem to be able to grasp that I have boundaries, and that I can communicate them online, after all.
I’m sorry you were molested but you cannot expect strangers to refrain from playing with each other to respect triggers they don’t even know exist. I know it sucks, I know it can even feel like physical pain. But they are not psychic and while we did not ask for trauma, it is our responsibility at the end of the day, not theirs. They’re just having fun and they should be able to do that.
Strangers tend to be humans. I expect humans to be machines for making the world worse. I don’t expect humans to respect my boundaries, quite often, because a large number of humans gain profit from oppressing each other.
I wish it weren’t so. Kindness is often just a choice.
Kindness might feel like or look like a choice, but it truly comes from understanding. Lord Buddha came across some children fishing, and asked them how they would react to a hook piercing their cheek, for example.
The concept of ‘me’ as exclusive from other living beings is what allows for harmful distinctions to be made, where ‘me’ can exploit others for profit. In reality, ‘me’ is just one of many living beings, and we are all born, feel pain, and die.
WAAAHHHH!! HUMANS BAD!!! GIVING BIRTH IS EVIL EVERYONE SUCKS WAAHHHHHHH!!!
I’m anarchist, autistic, and hypersexual, I’ll take all the touches that would otherwise go to you.
Protip: Do not bite as a self-defense. for some of us, it’s just a different form of kiss.
I probably won’t need to worry about your preferences, as it sounds like you might end up in prison.
Hey look, a misanthrope AND a puritan!
Inb4 you start with the eugenics shit
Hey look, someone who is not worth listening to.
Snark aside tho, you really, desperately need to stop doomscrolling. P much all your posts are about horribly depressing shit and that has a very real effect on how you view others. The vast majority of people aren’t rapists and abusers and fascists and shit, they just get a lot of attention bc enraging and hopeless stories get a lot of traffic. Oil and social media companies and right wing politicians invest a fuck ton of money and effort into making sure people are completely hopeless and mad at the wrong people, don’t give them that easy a win <3
I’m sorry for being edgy myself earlier, people with lives as traumatic as yours sounds from these comments come by misanthropy at least a bit honestly. That doesn’t make utter hopelessness or contempt for others helpful or good, but I should’ve been more understanding
Very true, I have no reason to listen to a pizza cutter whine about how cruel and evil humanity is :3