• RichieAdler 🇦🇷
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    1 year ago

    I’ll be honest, as long as you don’t make it weird you can approach a lot of people be they’re on the job or not

    Nah, people talk. If it’s known that you’ve approached many people, you’ll get an automatic rejection from the rest.

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      1 year ago

      If it’s known that you’ve approached many people,

      Unless you live in Buttfuck Montana, how would that be known?

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          1 year ago

          Yes, and if I have my headphones on at work, that means I’m focusing on something and you shouldn’t bother me unless it’s important. That’s what it means for most people. It certainly doesn’t mean “this is a good time to ask me out.”

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            1 year ago

            Tell that to people impervious to subtlety.

            But I meant that if you ask out a lot of persons at work, all the others will know and they’ll reject you preemptively.