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minus-squareRichieAdler 🇦🇷linkfedilinkarrow-up4arrow-down1·1 year ago I’ll be honest, as long as you don’t make it weird you can approach a lot of people be they’re on the job or not Nah, people talk. If it’s known that you’ve approached many people, you’ll get an automatic rejection from the rest.
minus-squareFlying Squid@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up2arrow-down2·1 year ago If it’s known that you’ve approached many people, Unless you live in Buttfuck Montana, how would that be known?
minus-squareRichieAdler 🇦🇷linkfedilinkarrow-up1·1 year agoWe’re talking within a work place. People do talk to each other.
minus-squareFlying Squid@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up1·1 year agoYes, and if I have my headphones on at work, that means I’m focusing on something and you shouldn’t bother me unless it’s important. That’s what it means for most people. It certainly doesn’t mean “this is a good time to ask me out.”
minus-squareRichieAdler 🇦🇷linkfedilinkarrow-up1·edit-21 year agoTell that to people impervious to subtlety. But I meant that if you ask out a lot of persons at work, all the others will know and they’ll reject you preemptively.
Nah, people talk. If it’s known that you’ve approached many people, you’ll get an automatic rejection from the rest.
Unless you live in Buttfuck Montana, how would that be known?
We’re talking within a work place. People do talk to each other.
Yes, and if I have my headphones on at work, that means I’m focusing on something and you shouldn’t bother me unless it’s important. That’s what it means for most people. It certainly doesn’t mean “this is a good time to ask me out.”
Tell that to people impervious to subtlety.
But I meant that if you ask out a lot of persons at work, all the others will know and they’ll reject you preemptively.