Male Bi Vers NY. Mostly posting for the boys here on Lemmy because the girls already get enough attention.

I’ll do anything once, and most things twice ;-)

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Cake day: June 19th, 2023

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  • I don’t have the context but I think gaybros is meant to be a chill place without any of the dom/sub/alpha/fag/masc/fem stuff that pervades a lot of gay spaces online. Just a place for guys to be guys and share whatever is on their mind. I don’t know if that’s official (wtf does official even mean on Lemmy) but that’s what it means to me.




  • Even for hooking up, I look for educated professional guys. I usually chat a bit on whatever app before agreeing to meet and if you’re a “wyd wya” type it’s probably not a match. Even a one night stand is better with some connection. Though recently (see my recent comments) I’ve had more random hookups that have worked out, too.

    Physically, I generally go for my otter boys. Messy hair, maybe scruffy, no long beards. I need a handsome face and a good body to really get my engine revving. I’ve reached a point where if your face is not good, I’m not gonna fuck you, and probably won’t even stay hard with you, anyway. That just means I have to like your face, you don’t have to be a model. I like intense eyes.

    Smooth muscle guys are good, too.








  • Hi bro, welcome!

    Consider signing up for a hookup app like Scruff. Be honest in your profile about where you are in your journey and what you’re looking for. You can see a lot of a guy before deciding if you like him or not, then meet for a drink and see if it makes sense to do more. In my experience, most guys don’t want to jump straight to intercourse, even if they’re horny af.

    Try not to be shy, start some conversations, and start learning what you are into. If you ever want to chat with another bro, message me any time!








  • I’m in a very different locale NYC where it’s not like that at all. I imagine culture in places like Serbia would definitely cause the problem you’re having. I’m sorry.

    Also fwiw I’m bi and there are also plenty of women here that don’t play games like that. Though yeah the chase is a little different with women than with men.

    The stereotypical gay thing btw I think it’s a way to let guys know you’re gay without having to have other men guess about your orientation. I don’t like it either, but I understand why it started.