UrsineApathy [none/use any]

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Cake day: March 18th, 2024

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  • This is all mostly true in my experiences. The sexual aspects being the most impactful and otherwise just being careful about how you dress, which is more of a slight inconvenience sometimes than an actual problem, but there are others.

    • There’s no such thing as a quickie because of how much warmup is required and then once you’re down to business chafing becomes a serious issue very quickly if you’re not careful.
    • Most alternative sexual acts to PIV(and even that) are out of the question or difficult and unsatisfying with some women.
    • You can’t use standard condoms without risking breakage and need to use very expensive brands or custom order them(and they still don’t fit right).
    • Depending on how far up the spectrum you are, staying erect without medical help can be difficult, but this is more of a fringe issue.
    • Wearing good underwear is required otherwise nothing is left to the imagination. For example, I generally can’t wear sweatpants or swimwear in polite company without taking extra precautions. In a similar vein tight clothes also present a similar issue and are more uncomfortable.
    • A lot of people don’t realize the self esteem issues that usually come along with it. It sucks to literally have an otherwise great relationship ruined because you physically cannot have sex with a partner.
    • A lot of men end up with weird dysmorphia issues. You don’t even realize it’s an issue until you’re well into adulthood because porn has ruined people’s expectations. If you’re not 12 inches long, you’re not big. I didn’t even realize the extent of the problems it caused until I was in my late 20’s because until that point I actually thought I was small…
    • You will never receive any sympathy for any of these issues and talking about it will get you laughed at in most circles.








  • and of course the loans at the subsidized rate are not enough to cover costs at an in-state school, so you also have to take out “unsubsidized” loans from the federal government, which are like double the interest rate of the subsidized loans.

    Thank you for saying this because people always conveniently forget this part. I went to a “budget” state school and subsidized loans only covered maybe half of any given semesters tuition and nothing else. If you needed to make rent, eat food or pay for the rest of tuition you needed to find money elsewhere. I worked full-time through school and still barely was able to to survive and had to take additional loans.





  • Most people want to feel desirable in their romantic relationship.

    While there is truth to this and you should absolutely do it, for a lot of people(especially those in healthy relationships) no amount of reassurance can assuage deep seeded insecurities. Attraction is almost the expectation rather because it’s a basic requirement for a relationship to function.

    Hearing constant reassurance about attractiveness from a partner can feel like your mom telling you you’re the most handsome person in the world. It’s nice, but it doesn’t feel like it carries a lot of weight compared to an organic comment from a stranger.


  • Not really, no.

    I was the prime age range for the books as a kid. The first book was decent as YA books go in the sense that it crafted an easily digestible, yet whimsical world with interesting enough characters. It was clear though that JKR had no long term story plan beyond Voldemort Bad as she had to pump the books out to keep up with the movie production schedules. After the fourth book the story is basically nonsensical.

    If there were no movies made in which the world literally watched three cute white kids grow up from preteens to full fledged adults it would have died after the first book if it had to survive only on its own merit. Even with the movies, only the first three are any good.



  • I could only get the abstract for the article, but the linked brief is likely more than enough. You’re right that intense pressure could have been out on the agencies to expedite the process, specifically, the Attorney General, FDA, and DEA heads are all appointed positions and can be removed from office with relative ease, but that move would come at a heavy cost.

    The subtext though is that it’s not a priority for him besides being a campaign bullet point, which you’ve already touched on plenty and I agree with. Rescheduling doesn’t redeem anything in my eyes, but I’m not going to look down on positive progress when it happens. So make sure to 420blazeit and celebrate.


  • I get the frustration, but in this case I think it’s a little unfair. Our archaic drugs laws are dictated by the Controlled Substances Act and the only two avenues to update the schedule status are a formal DEA review or an act of Congress. The latter clearly has no legitimate interest beyond political grandstanding so the other possible path to change was used. He took the most effective route in this case.

    The vast majority of our legislators are not there because they want to make the world a better place. They’re there to further their own self interests and most political dealings work on a quid pro quo arrangement. Forcing a DEA review cost almost nothing politically. The real problem is that this extremely popular action that was unnecessarily harming a lot of fucking people even required executive action at all instead of being addressed 30 years ago by actual legislation.