FourteenEyes [he/him]@hexbear.net to chat@hexbear.netEnglish · 4 months agoFor like the third time in the past year I've found someone who was DTF but it fell through because I don't have my own placemessage-squaremessage-square24fedilinkarrow-up157arrow-down10file-text
arrow-up157arrow-down1message-squareFor like the third time in the past year I've found someone who was DTF but it fell through because I don't have my own placeFourteenEyes [he/him]@hexbear.net to chat@hexbear.netEnglish · 4 months agomessage-square24fedilinkfile-text
minus-squareGarbageShoot [he/him]@hexbear.netlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up9·4 months ago there’s not a checklist of shit you need to check off to be ready for a relationship and/or having sex There kind of is. There is such a thing as being unhealthy enough that you shouldn’t be fishing for that sort of thing.
minus-squarepeppersky [he/him, any]@hexbear.netlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·4 months agoof course you might be in a state where you might pose a psychological or physical danger to any potential partner. there’s a bar you can go below but I don’t think there’s a bar you need to rise above.
There kind of is. There is such a thing as being unhealthy enough that you shouldn’t be fishing for that sort of thing.
of course you might be in a state where you might pose a psychological or physical danger to any potential partner. there’s a bar you can go below but I don’t think there’s a bar you need to rise above.