• myxi@feddit.nl
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    3 months ago

    I concur. It is also very hard to make a rationale for whether your date is ghosting you, is just busy, or is not in a good mood. Obviously, if she is not in a good mood or is busy, she would prefer not to reply to me (because she might unintentionally ruin the bond), but what if she’s just not interested in me and thus is ignoring me?

    If you like this person a lot, your feelings will likely corrupt your rationale. Your hopes won’t let you move on; you will keep suffering, deciding whether to move on or not.