Gendered question, I know. If you don’t identify as a man, please feel free to answer with whatever you want. I meant to post it in the Men’s Lib sub but somehow it always bugs for me.

Let’s spill the tea lads

I like painting my nails.

I like gardening and I take great pride in my plants and upcoming indoor veggie and herb garden.

I dance when I go out.

I like bright colors.

I like candles that smell nice.

I like flowers.

I like Harry Styles.

I like crocheting.

Whatever you like, be proud of it. There is no such thing as liking something unmanly. Nothing can harm your manliness. Do what you want.

  • CannotSleep420@lemmygrad.mlEnglish
    4·
    1 year ago

    I’ve had a bad case of anhedonia the past few years, so I don’t find myself enjoying many things, manly or otherwise. However, I can say some “manly” things I don’t like.

    I never cared for professional sports. I could maybe get it if the teams actually had ties to the cities they’re in, but trading players between teams baffles me. Then you get to fantasy sports, where people basically just track numbers and bet. People tell me sports teams are a great way to find common ground with strangers, but all I can see are brands being used to shove ads in peoples’ faces and encourage people to gamble.

    • RedFortress@lemmygrad.mlEnglish
      0·
      1 year ago

      Same, all the guys I’ve met are crazy about sports and FIFA games. When I was in high school, I would skip playing football during Phys Ed and watch what the girls were doing instead.

  • pyska@lemmygrad.ml
    1·
    1 year ago

    I think the term “manly” has been so polluted. I don’t think there is nothing “unmanly” with:

    • Loving nature.
    • Loving your neighbor (even Jesus said to).
    • Loving culture (and accepting other’s culture).
    • Showing emotion (except for you narcissists who use this as an excuse for abuse. Fuck you).
    • Dancing.
    • Going outside just to feel the wind gently blowing your hair and caressing your face.

    We are capable of very complex modes of existing. There is no reason to keep being the same hateful person every day. It takes courage to go out of your confort zone. It takes courage to be a “man”. Whatever it is that word means. Love you all. <3

    Edit: Guys, are comments like this valuable? On Reddit I felt the need to write this way, but everyone seems so chill here…

  • Alpacario@lemmygrad.ml
    0·
    1 year ago

    I love adorable animals, I’ll squeal with delight whenever I see a video of one. Alpacas are my favorite.

  • 201dberg@lemmygrad.ml
    01·
    1 year ago

    Idk what constitutes many and non manly anymore. I guess growing plants and gardening type stuff is not “manly”? I have a lot of amaryllis flowers that bloom every year. I have 4 that I raised from seeds from my very first one. They bloomed a year ago. It takes 3 years of growth minimum before the bloom. They have some huge flowers. I have like 23 different ones now. 4 varieties. The first one is a pure red and I saved it. My mom got it as a gift for Xmas and after it bloomed she just threw the bulb out. I found it and repotted it. It bloomed on valentine’s day. I call it my plant GF.

    We also have moonflowers that grow all around our house. The local bees love them and I like going out in the evenings mid to late summer when they are all open cause they smell amazing.

    I also like fermenting foods. Idk if that’s considered not manly or anything but I like it and it’s fun to me.

  • PeeOnYou [he/him]@lemmygrad.ml
    01·
    1 year ago

    i like music that tends to appeal to women but most guys wouldn’t be caught dead listening to… and I like to sing in a high pitch rather than lower

    i do the laundry and the vacuuming in our house… my partner is tiny and it’s hard for her to vacuum and i don’t mind it