How can you tell romantic and platonic love apart? What does it mean to fall in love with someone?

  • Mardoniush [she/her]@hexbear.net
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    1 year ago

    There is no difference. There is love with desire and lust, and sometimes that lasts. There is love with deep friendship. There is love that is inexplicable, despite flaws. And sometimes there is love with all of these.

    It’s possibly my most idealist take, that, somehow, despite all reason, love is more than material affinity, brain chemistry, or temporary passion, but something platonic and divine and fundamental. And I’m honestly not sorry for having love as a terminal value, because with it, there is no choice but to be a socialist.