Last year I was employed at a decent paying job with good benefits, doing work that mattered. Now I’m seven months unemployed, out of benefits and still getting ghosted by employers. Most everything else has remained the same (no friends, uncertainty with my gender and how I want to live my life, stuck living with my mom) except that I started seeing a therapist ~10 months ago who I really like.

It just feels really, really bad. I’m assuming other people have had this experience in their life already (I am both fairly young and a late bloomer in most respects), so I guess I’m asking how you dealt with it and how things got better, assuming they did :aware:

you can also commiserate with me if you like

thanks gamers

  • Awoo [she/her]@hexbear.netEnglish
    6·
    10 months ago

    A “learn to cook” book isn’t a self help book. It’s a cook book.

    A “house-repairs” book isn’t a self help book. It’s a DIY book.

    You are either misunderstanding the topic, or are being deliberately obtuse. Self help books transpose problems caused by capitalism into a problem with the individual and then tell the individual they need to change who they are and take part in hustle culture and understand that their motivational problems to grind grind grind caused by worker-alienation are actually problems with them as a human being that they need to change. Self help diverts attention away from the source of problems that capitalism is causing, aiming to treat the symptoms of these problems as a diversion away from recognising the cause.

      • Awoo [she/her]@hexbear.netEnglish
        7·
        10 months ago

        Oh I see. Yeah it makes sense that you don’t like this discourse since you want people to buy your grifter book. lmao

    • odmroz [he/him]@hexbear.netEnglish
      1·
      10 months ago

      What’s an example of a self-help book, then? My examples would include “The Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous,” “Atomic Habits” (by James Clear) and “Getting Things Done” (by David Allen). They just contain useful info that makes life easier, is my perspective.