• BedSharkPal@lemmy.ca
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    11 months ago

    But for real how did homophobia become the term for what is very rarely an actual fear?

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      11 months ago

      According to Wikipedia it was an actual fear that homosexuality is contagious. That belief is probably alive and well amongst idiots.

      I always thought it to be more akin to hydrophobia instead of arachnophobia - as in fat reacting to water. Now I think that is to take as fat is neither attacking water nor is it insane.

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          11 months ago

          That’s a good question! Xenophobia has an evolutionary basis and exists in other species as well (e.g. chimpanzees). Encountering another group of humans (or chimps) might be dangerous. Being cautious is beneficial for survival.

          However, when you add racism and are actively hostile to another group - is it still a Phobia? And if not or if it is not fear-motivated, what do you call it?

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            11 months ago

            I’d differentiate between xenophobia and racism. Being weary of something different is very different to feeling hate or acting against it.

            A lot more people than would like to admit are a little bit xenophobic, but not racists.

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        11 months ago

        When the spiders start laying eggs in your eyeballs that’s when you will start sucking dicks.

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      11 months ago

      The word phobia may also refer to conditions other than true phobias.

      For example, the term hydrophobia is an old name for rabies, since an aversion to water is one of that disease’s symptoms. A specific phobia to water is called aquaphobia instead. A hydrophobe is a chemical compound that repels water. Similarly, photophobia usually refers to a physical complaint (aversion to light due to inflamed eyes or excessively dilated pupils), rather than an irrational fear of light.

      Several terms with the suffix -phobia are used non-clinically to imply irrational fear or hatred, such as Xenophobia and Homophobia

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        11 months ago

        A specific phobia to water is called aquaphobia instead.

        Please be lying, the only thing worse than mixing Latin and Greek is using words that mean the exact same for different things

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      11 months ago

      As an 80s kid, before I learned a few things about how the world works, fear was very much one of the top feelings I got when near guys I knew were gay. Perhaps you youngsters got to skip that phase.

      I never translated that to hate, though. I don’t exactly understand how that process even works. I’ve hated a few individual people in my life (100% because of what they did to me), and I feared none of them.

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    11 months ago

    I mean I have no problem with it. Might even help the economy with all the extra wedding services from arachnid customers.

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      11 months ago

      Do you know how many babies those widows have?! Our welfare system will be overwhelmed within a years time!

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    11 months ago

    All those Hippopotomonstrosesquippedaliophobic bigots out there. Leave those words in peace.