I’m fairly neutral but I don’t like that along with the rest of the lgbt people seem to hate us

  • Hackerman_uwu@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    I’m married to a woman, we have kids, 20 year relationship, a whole life, so these days I see myself as more Bowiesexual than bisexual.

    My beautiful, amazing, wonderful soulmate pretty much defines my sexuality. If there was an orientation that meant ‘only attracted to her’ then I’d be that.

    Strictly speaking I am a bisexual man and I do like being who I am. I think that’s implicit about being a certain way, you like certain things. i like being in touch with and able to freely express my femininity as a man. Sure, my heterosexual male pals can’t help raising an eyebrow if I wear nail polish from time to time. That’s fine, it’s ok to be ‘controversial’.

    I think ata a certain age you just settle in and it’s like: ‘I am here, I’ve dealt with it, if you can’t then you don’t have to - the door is over there.’