• ksdhf@lemmygrad.ml
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    8 months ago

    Keep talking to your cousin, cutting him out of your life will further alienate him. He sounds self-destructive. You mentioned in your previous post he is 16, what are his goals for his future?

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      8 months ago

      Wdym self destructive? But yes, he bothered other family members when he sent us reactionary content until everyone blocked him. Idk what are his goals beyond circlejerking and bigotry, sexism and racism on social media.

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        8 months ago

        Self destructive in the sense he is sabotaging his relationships with others most likely due to some deep insecurity. From the sounds of it, he doesn’t actually have any consistent beliefs other than whatever is the most outrageous, taboo thing to say in order to alienate people around him. He might have some mental issues he is hiding, but I don’t know him… you know him more.

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          8 months ago

          He didn’t have any mental issues before. Yes, he is now being disgusting just for the sake of being disgusting, but what caused this and how to stop it?

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            8 months ago

            In all honesty, I don’t know your cousin and I’m not qualified to answer that. He needs a doctor or therapist. Sadly, there’s not much you can do other than not abandon him. Unless he is willing to making changes and work on himself you cannot force it on him.

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              8 months ago

              His parents can take him to therapist considering, he’s barely 16 so there is chance.

              What exactly it needs to be done first except curing his fascism? He’s extremely bigoted, literally just parrots the same stuff even when someone explains him somethig.