• Sir_Kevin@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    9 months ago

    First of all, thank you Snek for having a reasonable and adult discussion. And thanks to whoever cleaned up this thread (my shit included, even if the wafflehouse bit was hilarious).

    I’m not really looking at this as who to point a finger at. In terms of having kids, it’s a risk/reward analysis. This is just my opinion, and I’ve never implied it’s the only right answer. But me personally; if I was living somewhere under threat of being attacked, I would not feel comfortable bringing a child into that environment.

    If someone brings a child into the world and someone else dropped a bomb on that child, would I say it’s the parents fault? No, of course not. Will that parent be devastated? Yes. Will that parent have put blood, money and love into something that’s how gone? Yes. Will that parent spend the rest of their life feeling guilty about what happened? Probably. Do I personally want to put myself into that position? Hell no!

    But that’s me and my opinion. Like I said earlier, parenthood is hard as it is right now. Nevermind climate change…

    • المنطقة عكف عفريت@lemmy.worldOP
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      9 months ago

      Thanks for clarifying

      But me personally; if I was living somewhere under threat of being attacked, I would not feel comfortable bringing a child into that environment.

      Me too, I wouldn’t either (heck I’m not even having kids in normal circumstances)

      Climate change is also another (quite good) reason to clean up the planet and empty the orphanages first…