• Hyggyldy@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    1 year ago

    It always grosses me out when someone calls a woman ‘mommy’ in a sexual way and it’s been pretty common lately. It’s no less creepy than women calling men ‘daddy’.

    • LeylaaLovee@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      1 year ago

      I mean, think of it this way. I’m into BDSM. However, I’m not into being absolutely nothing in the dynamic. Calling my partner master owner or mistress feels weird. I just want a more powerful term for her where the power dynamic isn’t completely removed from anything loving.

      Her: “Have you been a good sub for me today?”

      People who don’t say mommy: “Yes CEO, I got that quarterly report finished for you.”