It could be over a few months, like a new job where one day you feel like actually going to work thinking, hey I actually like these people and don’t mind working here.
Or when your friends have been super busy for months and suddenly you get matched on dating apps, old friends reach out and people want to buy your old junk on Craigslist in a single day.
I don’t know the science behind it, I just know that I felt like I had nothing to lose. I’ll always be grateful for the excellent tripsitter I had. He took really good care of me and I owe it to him at least as much as to the drug.