Anyone have any advice for navigating coming out as bisexual recently. I just moved states so I haven’t been able to get a good grasp on the social scene yet, is there maybe a way of thinking about dating preferences without actually dating?

I’ve thought about going to a gay bar but I’ve never been to any and I really don’t know what to do.

    • Custoslibera@lemmy.world
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      1 year ago

      What’s your apprehension about going out and meeting people to help you find what you’re looking for?

      I mean by all means jot down a couple of deal breakers for yourself when considering a partner (I.e. non-smoker, doesn’t physically abuse me, no drug addiction etc) but there’s only so far you can go with theorising a partner.

      People will surprise you in my experience. Behaviour or characteristics you thought you really didn’t like suddenly becomes irrelevant when it’s the right person.