It is kinda ruining my life lmao. I have never felt this strongly for anyone. When we talk, I can ride that high for days. But then she gives me (what I perceive as) the cold shoulder and the depression I feel… boy. It’s been like this for months. I cannot go on, man.
One word: limerance. You’re enjoying a fantasy as a form of emotional self-regulation. Once you realize it was a fantasy that you built up around your crush that in all likelihood you don’t know all that well, it’s pretty easy to get over it.
I know it’s a fantasy. I’ve been in that for six fucking months. It’s getting worse.
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Why did you come to that conclusion? I do want to but I want to do that in person not over text and I’m also scared. I want to ask her to coffee or brunch or something first but then I don’t know to tell her what I’m feeling. I’m just confused.
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