And apparently, also when you think that ‘They’ is a perfectly serviceable gender-neutral singular pronoun, but are willing to use other pronouns if asked to.

EDIT: Other removable offenses on Blahaj now include questioning mod/admin decisions and quoting the modlog as a reason why you’re leaving.

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    So how do you tell who’s having a conversation in good faith or bad faith? Once again, the conclusion seems to be one doesn’t and to err on the side of safety for the users of that instance.

    There is such a thing as toxic positivity - when being permissible itself creates an environment for bad faith actors to dominate discussion. I am generally more hesitant to tell someone their experience of racism is wrong, but at the same time, that doesn’t mean that getting a sunburn because they have pale skin is racism. All discussions require boundaries, even if just implicit ones; discussions without boundaries descend into incoherence. It’s been declared here that questioning the boundaries of this discussion at all is no longer welcome in Blahaj. And that’s… very unfortunate.

    When it was just “We’re going to be enforcing the standard rules on pronouns and gender on dragonfucker as a gender”, it was like “Okay, fine, I’m sad, I’m going to sadpost and leave, but this is well within their rights and I understand what they’re trying to do.” Removing comments for any questioning of the decision? Bit more irritating.