So I’m a 35 year old male in a group where me and this girl joke around. She’s a bit “dominate” I guess and tries to be in control. However I don’t really take shit from people and will keep talking if she tells me to stop talking and say what I want. She talks about wanting to bang. Apparently me giving her shit (which I do with all of my friends) and not putting up with her means I’m flirting…am I flirting?

Also she keeps saying she “would me eat me alive” I honestly have no idea what that means, so if anyone knows please let me know.

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    1 year ago

    She sounds a bit immature and that’s a red flag IMO. If you are here asking what she wants, to me it means that you are not that much into her. If you wanted to bang her you wouldn’t be asking about it here, you would know already…

    …which brings me to the point: you can only flirt on purpose. Everyone is different and flirts in a different way, what is flirting for some is just their default way of treating people for others. As long as you are not leading her on purpose, you are in the clear. But if she’s accusing you of flirting, which would be another red flag imo, I would suggest just stop being friendly with her. She sounds like problems you don’t need.