So sex ed was really bad where I’m from and I’ve had to figure a lot of shit out by trial and error. I’ve been enjoying experimenting with anal for a while now but I’ve reached a point where, after a longer session with one of my larger toys, there’s sometimes a little blood. Never like flowing blood just when I pass the excess lube afterwards it’s comes out pink. This has happened a few times but I don’t feel any lasting effects. My bowel movements afterward have been fine. Should I be worried about this? Is any blood too much or am I fine?

  • ReadFanon [any, any]@hexbear.net
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    3 months ago

    More (gradual) stretching, going more gently especially during warmup, using more lube, switching to a better lube, reapplying lube if it’s waterbased (essentially it should be waterbasedif you’re using most toys) and you haven’t reapplied for a while - any of these might be a solution.

    There’s nothing much to worry about and it’s not uncommon. It’s likely just because of a very minor skin tear.

    As the person below mentioned, it could be a haemorrhoid. You can have a small painless one that are internal that you wouldn’t be able to notice without a doctor inspecting it. Again, nothing much to worry about and not uncommon.

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        3 months ago

        Swiss Navy (silicone based, so no go with most toys, but I was able to take a girthy 10" ez) is good in my experience. And good clean love lube(green bottle), and I’ve been using Vaseline soothing hydration when I ran out. It doesn’t explicitly say I shouldn’t, but it’s probably not going to be a long term use kinda thing. But it glides weeeelllll